I.
Judah ’s
marriage to a Canaanite woman and birth of his sons
a.
Genesis
38:1 – And it came to pass at
that time, that Judah went down from his brethren, and turned in to a certain
Adullamite, whose name [was] Hirah.
§
When is “at that
time”? We can reconcile that Joseph was about 17 when he was sold to Potiphar, Judah would have been about 20 years old at this time. 23 years later Israel migrated to Egypt .
§
Adullamite – עדלמי
`Adullamiy, "justice of the people"
§
Hirah – חירה
Chiyrah, "a noble family"
b.
Genesis
38:2 – And Judah saw there a
daughter of a certain Canaanite, whose name [was] Shuah; and he took her, and
went in unto her.
§
It appears
obvious that Jacob was not consulted on this marriage, but Hirah. Was it a bad marriage? We can see the
character of the first two sons was so wicked that God intervenes so it appears
that marrying this Canaanite was not in the Will of God. We will see how God remedies this as the chapter
continues.
§
Children should
seek counsel of their parents, not their friends on matters as important as who
to marry.
§
Shuah - שוע
Shuwa`, "wealth"
§
Genesis
24:3 – And I will make thee
swear by the LORD, the God of heaven, and the God of the earth, that thou shalt
not take a wife unto my son of the daughters of the Canaanites, among whom I
dwell:
§
Genesis
26:34-35 – And Esau was forty
years old when he took to wife Judith the daughter of Beeri the Hittite, and
Bashemath the daughter of Elon the Hittite: Which were a grief of mind unto
Isaac and to Rebekah.
§
Genesis
28:1 – And Isaac called
Jacob, and blessed him, and charged him, and said unto him, Thou shalt not take
a wife of the daughters of Canaan .
§
Deuteronomy
7:2-4 – And when the LORD thy
God shall deliver them before thee; thou shalt smite them, [and] utterly
destroy them; thou shalt make no covenant with them, nor shew mercy unto them:
Neither shalt thou make marriages with them; thy daughter thou shalt not give
unto his son, nor his daughter shalt thou take unto thy son. For they will turn away thy son from
following me, that they may serve other gods: so will the anger of the LORD be
kindled against you, and destroy thee suddenly.
c.
Genesis
38:3 – And she conceived, and
bare a son; and he called his name Er.
§
Er - ער `Er,
"awake"
§
Judah is about 20 years old when Joseph is sold into
bondage, that makes him close to 21 years old here when Er is born if this
happened subsequent to Joseph being sold.
d.
Genesis
38:4 – And she conceived
again, and bare a son; and she called his name Onan.
§
Onan - אונן
'Ownan, "strong"
e.
Genesis
38:5 – And she yet again
conceived, and bare a son; and called his name Shelah: and he was at Chezib,
when she bare him.
§
Shelah – שלה
Shelah, "a petition"
§
Chezib – כזיב
Kĕziyb, "false"
f.
Genesis
38:6 – And Judah took a wife
for Er his firstborn, whose name [was] Tamar.
§
Tamar –תמר
Tamar, "palm-tree"
o
Jasher 46:23 –
And in those days Judah went to the house of Shem and took Tamar the daughter of Elam , the son of Shem for a wife for his firstborn Er.
o
Targum Pseudo-Jonathan
38:6 – Judah took a wife for Er his first-born, the daughter of
Shem the Great, whose name was Tamar.
o
Shem lived 500
years after Arphaxad was born and begat sons and daughters, Elam was one of those sons with no record of when he was
born.
o
What little
evidence there is of Tamar’s lineage, it seems to support that she was of Shem
and not of the Canaanites.
g.
Genesis
38:7 – And Er, Judah 's firstborn, was wicked in the sight of the LORD; and
the LORD slew him.
§
Wicked - רע
ra`, bad, evil
o
There had been
many wicked people up to this point in time, what did Er do that crossed the
line?
o
Targum Pseudo-Jonathan 38:7 – But Er, the firstborn of Judah , was evil before the Lord, because he did not have
intercourse with his wife according to the manner of all the earth. And the anger of the Lord blazed forth
against him, and the Lord killed him.
a.
Note that this is
an opinion of an early commentator and not necessarily true.
o
Since this was
the Messianic blood line it seems that God was less tolerant of wickedness.
§
Compared to Jacob
who was patient and married much later in life, Judah appears to have married very young and therefore does
not appear to maintain proper authority in his home.
§
“The Lord slew
him” – there are a lot of wicked people and have been many throughout history
yet there are very few that it can be said the “Lord slew” why Er?
h.
Genesis
38:8 – And Judah said unto
Onan, Go in unto thy brother's wife, and marry her, and raise up seed to thy
brother.
§
Confirmed in the mosaic
law
o
Deuteronomy
25:5-9 - If brethren dwell
together, and one of them die, and have no child, the wife of the dead shall not marry without unto a stranger: her
husband's brother shall go in unto her, and take her to him to wife, and
perform the duty of an husband's brother unto her. And it shall be, [that] the firstborn which
she beareth shall succeed in the name of his brother [which is] dead,
that his name be not put out of Israel . And if the
man like not to take his brother's wife, then let his brother's wife go up to
the gate unto the elders, and say, My husband's brother refuseth to raise up
unto his brother a name in Israel, he will not perform the duty of my husband's
brother. Then the elders of his city
shall call him, and speak unto him: and [if] he stand [to it], and say, I like
not to take her; Then shall his brother's wife come unto him in the presence of
the elders, and loose his shoe from off his foot, and spit in his face, and
shall answer and say, So shall it be done unto that man that will not build up
his brother's house.
o
Matthew 22:24 -
Saying, Master, Moses said, If a man die, having no children, his brother shall
marry his wife, and raise up seed unto his brother.
i.
Genesis
38:9 – And Onan knew that the
seed should not be his; and it came to pass, when he went in unto his brother's
wife, that he spilled [it] on the ground, lest that he should give seed to his
brother.
§
We have a
difficult time understanding this because is is so different from our culture,
but what Onan has done here is a deplorable act. Rather than just refuse to raise seed to his
brother and deal with the shame of that, he went through with the act, but
destroyed the seed because it would have been considered his brother’s.
j.
Genesis
38:10 – And the thing which
he did displeased the LORD: wherefore he slew him also.
§
Slew - מות
muwth, to die, kill, have one executed
§
Why did God slay
Onan for something that does not seem worthy of death?
o
Acts 5:3-5
- But Peter said, Ananias,
why hath Satan filled thine heart to
lie to the Holy Ghost, and to keep back [part] of the price of the
land? Whiles it remained, was it not
thine own? and after it was sold, was it not in thine own power? why hast thou conceived this thing in
thine heart? thou hast not lied unto men, but unto God. And Ananias hearing these words fell down, and
gave up the ghost: and great fear came on all them that heard these things.
a.
Ananias was
killed because he lied to the Holy Ghost (Spirit) and held back something for
himself that he said he had given to the Church.
b.
The same could be
said for Onan. He lied because rather than outwardly deny Tamar her right as
Er’s widow, he pretended to fulfill his obligation as brother, but secretly
denied her.
k.
Genesis
38:11 – Then said Judah to
Tamar his daughter in law, Remain a widow at thy father's house, till Shelah my
son be grown: for he said, Lest peradventure he die also, as his brethren
[did]. And Tamar went and dwelt in her father's house.
II.
Jadah’s Relations with his daughter-in-law
a.
Genesis
38:12 – And in process of time
the daughter of Shuah Judah's wife died; and Judah was comforted, and went up
unto his sheepshearers to Timnath, he and his friend Hirah the Adullamite.
§
Sheepshearers - גזז
gazaz, to shear, mow
o
Sheep shearing - The
sheep-shearing is done in the springtime, either by the owners or by regular
"shearers"
§
Timnath – תמנה
Timnah, "portion", about 12 miles northwest of Hebron
§
Comforted – i.e.
when he had observed all mourning rites
b.
Genesis
38:13 – And it was told
Tamar, saying, Behold thy father in law goeth up to Timnath to shear his sheep.
§
Who told her?
§
Judah was unjust to his daughter-in-law, either through
negligence or design, by not giving her to Shelah he exposed her to temptation.
c.
Genesis
38:14 – And she put her
widow's garments off from her, and covered her with a vail, and wrapped
herself, and sat in an open place, which [is] by the way to Timnath; for she
saw that Shelah was grown, and she was not given unto him to wife.
§
Obviously her
motivation for doing this was not for wantonness or she would not have targeted
Judah specifically, it was to claim her right as wife of
the firstborn son.
§
Was this
justifiable? See v. 26
§
Ruth 4:12 -
And let thy house be like the house of Pharez, whom Tamar bare unto Judah , of the seed which the LORD shall give thee of this
young woman.
o
Future
generations justifying Tamar’s actions
d.
Genesis
38:15 – When Judah saw her, he thought her [to be] an harlot; because
she had covered her face.
§
Harlot – זנה
zanah, verb, to commit
fornication, be a harlot, play the harlot
§
So it was the
custom for harlots to cover their faces? Where has shame gone in our society
today? Sin is no longer shamed into the
hiding of ones face but proudly displayed in the public arena.
e.
Genesis
38:16 – And he turned unto
her by the way, and said, Go to, I pray thee, let me come in unto thee; (for he
knew not that she [was] his daughter in law.) And she said, What wilt thou give
me, that thou mayest come in unto me?
f.
Genesis
38:17 – And he said, I will
send [thee] a kid from the flock. And she said, Wilt thou give [me] a pledge,
till thou send [it]?
§
Pledge - ערבון
`arabown, pledge, security
§
Goats were used
as currency?
§
The favour of God, the purity of the soul, the peace
of conscience, and the hope of heaven, are too precious to be exposed to sale
at any such rates; the Topaz of Ethiopia cannot equal them: what are those
profited that lose their souls to gain the world? Matthew
Henry Commentary
g.
Genesis
38:18 – And he said, What
pledge shall I give thee? And she said, Thy signet, and thy bracelets, and thy
staff that [is] in thine hand. And he gave [it] her, and came in unto her, and
she conceived by him.
§
Signet – חותם
chowtham, seal, signet, signet-ring
§
Bracelets – פתיל
pathiyl, cord, thread (twisted)
§
Staff – מטה
matteh, staff, branch, tribe
h.
Genesis
38:19 – And she arose, and
went away, and laid by her vail from her, and put on the garments of her
widowhood.
i.
Genesis
38:20 – And Judah sent the
kid by the hand of his friend the Adullamite, to receive [his] pledge from the
woman's hand: but he found her not.
§
What kind of
friend is this Adullamite?
§
Seems to be
around whenever Judah makes a bad decision.
j.
Genesis
38:21 – Then he asked the men
of that place, saying, Where [is] the harlot, that [was] openly by the way
side? And they said, There was no harlot in this [place].
§
They were right,
there was no harlot in this place, only Tamar.
k.
Genesis
38:22 – And he returned to Judah,
and said, I cannot find her; and also the men of the place said, [that] there
was no harlot in this [place].
§
Trying to picture
this guy walking around with a baby goat asking if anyone has seen the harlot
l.
Genesis
38:23 – And Judah said, Let
her take [it] to her, lest we be shamed: behold, I sent this kid, and thou hast
not found her.
§
Let her keep the
pledges, basically saying don’t draw attention by searching for these things in
order to avoid the shame of answering how she obtained them.
§
He made an attempt
to find her, met his obligation
§
He is not
concerned about the sin itself, rather of being found out
m.
Genesis
38:24 – And it came to pass
about three months after, that it was told Judah, saying, Tamar thy daughter in
law hath played the harlot; and also, behold, she [is] with child by whoredom.
And Judah said, Bring her forth, and let her be burnt.
§
Who told him?
§
Whoredom - זנונים
zanuwn, adultery, fornication, prostitution
§
By law she is
betrothed to Shelah and therefore under the jurisdiction of Judah even though she lives with her father.
§
This proclamation
from Judah to have Tamar burned is in strict accordance with the
code of Khammurabi which was the law of the land in Canaan
during this period of time. It is also
according to the Babylonian code.
§
Judah ’s double standard? Some women were not part of
prominent families and may have been temple prostitutes that were supported by
offerings or common prostitutes who were supported by men. Their children were not entitled to any
inheritance and the men who hired them were not considered to have adulterated
any family bloodlines. Judah was ready to have Tamar executed because her
pregnancy being the result of prostitution would have given Judah a grandchild that was not part of his family line.
§
Sexual morality
is not the question here and that is why Judah might appear to have a double standard. Judah ’s concern is keeping his inheritance in the family,
unbeknownst to him; Tamar’s actions benefited Judah with legal heirs.
§
Romans 2:1
- Therefore thou art
inexcusable, O man, whosoever thou art that judgest: for wherein thou judgest
another, thou condemnest thyself; for
thou that judgest doest the same things.
n.
Genesis
38:25 – When she [was]
brought forth, she sent to her father in law, saying, By the man, whose these
[are, am] I with child: and she said, Discern, I pray thee, whose [are] these,
the signet, and bracelets, and staff.
§
She was justified
before Judah because she had his possessions
o.
Genesis
38:26 – And Judah
acknowledged [them], and said, She hath been more righteous than I; because
that I gave her not to Shelah my son. And he knew her again no more.
§
It is difficult
to deny the truth when the evidence is laid out before you
III.
Birth of Pharez and Zarah
a.
Genesis
38:27 – And it came to pass
in the time of her travail, that, behold, twins [were] in her womb.
§
Identical or
fraternal?
b.
Genesis
38:28 – And it came to pass,
when she travailed, that [the one] put out [his] hand: and the midwife took and
bound upon his hand a scarlet thread, saying, This came out first.
§
Scarlet thread - שני
shaniy, scarlet, crimson
c.
Genesis
38:29 – And it came to pass,
as he drew back his hand, that, behold, his brother came out: and she said, How
hast thou broken forth? [this] breach [be] upon thee: therefore his name was
called Pharez.
§
Pharez -פרץ Perets,
"breach"
§
Theme of this
entire chapter “breach” for this parenthetical chapter breaches the story of Jospeh
in Egypt , obviously to provide us with something important. Pharez is ancestor to both David and Jesus.
o
Matthew
1:3-6 - And Judas begat Phares and Zara of
Thamar; and Phares begat Esrom;
and Esrom begat Aram; And Aram begat Aminadab; and Aminadab begat Naasson; and
Naasson begat Salmon; And Salmon begat Booz of Rachab; and Booz begat Obed of
Ruth; and Obed begat Jesse; And Jesse begat David the king; and David the king
begat Solomon of her [that had been the wife] of Urias;
o
Pharez was
ancestor to David and Jesus
§
John 8:41 - Ye
do the deeds of your father. Then said they to him, We be not born of
fornication; we have one Father, [even] God.
o
This is Jesus
speaking to the Jews, the Jews are of the tribe of Judah and therefore they are in error to say that “We be
not born of fornication” for they were born of fornication between Judah and
Tamar.
d.
Genesis
38:30 – And afterward came
out his brother, that had the scarlet thread upon his hand: and his name was
called Zarah.
§
Zarah - זרח Zerach,
"rising"
§
Zarah, who was
first, was actually last and did not inherit the birthright.
o
Matthew 20:16 - So
the last shall be first, and the first
last: for many be called, but few chosen.
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